The Simpler Marriage Letter Archive

IN PROGRESS 😊 All letters will eventually be here.

Married love got complicated while we weren't looking. Let's make it simpler again so we can love and be loved for the long term.

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50 years of marriage - so far so good! Actually it’s fantastic.

But for 20 of those years I didn't realize I was unknowingly developing negative emotional reactions to Brenda and to things in our marriage.

She did it too, we all do.

I ended up with a script of unhelpful automatic responses that led to some unpleasant scenes and stories.

And without trying, I became a slave to my script that I didn’t even write on purpose.

Then I learned I can write a new script, and that has led to more pleasant stories, and I’m still adding to it.

Every Tuesday I share some of the parts of that new script in an email letter. These are the archives of those letters.

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- Gary Morland